There are many people out there who actually derive their power by bringing people down. How do they do it? It is usually by taking them off their focus in life. Sometimes it takes the form of taking one of your health weaknesses and revealing it to the world or just outright making up a lie about you. It’s a tactic which attempts to drain your energy to fill their own. It’s actually pretty sad since the person trying to steal the power typically finds their own energy drained. They spend hours of their time obsessing on you.
There is the compelling question of why? The answers can have a certain level of complexity, however, the usual answer is the simplest. They are unhappy with their own lives and are jealous of you. The only way they can feel they’ve won is by trying to bring you down. It is really quite sad when you understand that everyone will get the lime light one day in whatever area is their talent. There is enough to go around.
When finding out that someone is starting rumors about you, you can get angry and you can feel betrayed especially if it was someone you thought you respected. The great part of it is that you get the opportunity to show your mastery. Your initial response might be to blow up with anger. This is not the way because it expends your energy in a negative way. Sure it might feel good letting it out but the health effects are sometimes catastrophic. It has been measured that anger lowers a person’s immune system significantly.
How Do You Help Yourself
To help yourself, you must let it go and forgive them. Easier said than done you might say. Actually it is. If you take on the offender’s point of view, you may quickly discover how pathetic they are. They obsess on you and neglect themselves and the people they care about. How much of a waste is that? You may be instantly filled with compassion. Secretly send them good thoughts. It will instantly help you and perhaps, if you’re a spiritual person, it will help them. Understand that from small minds come small thoughts. Great minds create the thoughts that expand, encompass and inspire. The negative rumors are an opportunity for you to once again show your mastery. Just think how much that would help your game. Talk about a peak performance!
By the way, the jealous negative route never ends well. Chronic illness in their professional, physical and emotional life prevail. Perhaps you can understand why compassion is the antidote.
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